Am I too young to be confused?

I am a 16 year old boy and I have been dressin up as a girl since I was like 12 I love wearin heels but I get too embaresed to wear them out in public I also wear other womens clothe but for the most part I love heels I do like girls but sometimes I feel like I would rather be a girl I never had ual feelings for a boy except for Taylor lautner I have never had before but usually when I think about it I think about girls but now I have thout about it with guys I don't really have a problem with gay people but when in with my friends I act like I would never be gay and couldn't be gay and wouldn't ever be friends with a gay guy but that's only the way I act around my friends it scares me that I am so confused but I don't really have anyone too talk to I really do like girls but everytime I try to tell myself I'm straight I stil fins myself actin really feminene but when I try to tell myself I'm gay I get a felling In my stomach that I am doin something wrong could someone help me please